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How Being Overprotective Effects Your Adolescent

Parents! ๐Ÿ‘‹ We understand you seek to shelter your children from physical, mental, and emotional pain. You want to ensure that your kids are successful, so you might cushion the path or soften the blows of everyday life.โฃโฃ
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๐˜‰๐˜œ๐˜›, the problem with that is often times overprotective parents can have tunnel vision. Whether itโ€™s in their quest to help a child achieve goals, or dominate decision-making on behalf of their teen, or simply believing they know whatโ€™s best 24/7.โฃโฃ
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This tendency to shelter, buffer, and manipulate can effect our teens in many ways. Here are just a few examples.๐Ÿ‘‡โฃโฃ
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โ†’ ๐”๐ง๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐งโฃโฃ
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โ†’ ๐ƒ๐ž๐œ๐ž๐ฉ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐งโฃโฃ
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โ†’ ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ, ๐ฎ๐ง๐œ๐จ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐งโฃโฃ
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โ†’ ๐…๐ž๐š๐ซ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐งโฃโฃ
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โ†’ ๐„๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฅ๐ž๐ ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐งโฃโฃ
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Itโ€™s important to remember that overprotective parents (๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ด!) have good intentions. They want whatโ€™s best for their child, even if it means they have to bulldoze the way or protect them from the potentially hurtful realities of the outside world.โฃโฃ
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Do you think youโ€™re an overprotective parent? ๐Ÿค”

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