How You Respond, Speak, And Treat Them A long Lasting Impact On Who They Will Become!
Parents, what our children think of themselves is strongly influenced by how they think their parents view them!
🗣 Your voice, whether gentle and kind, empathic and warm, or strident and harsh, becomes a big part of their inner voice.
🧠 They treat themselves the way they have been treated and they think about themselves as what they think you think about them (good, bad or indifferent).
❓How do you want your loved ones to speak to you? The answer to that question should be a guide on how we should speak to our children.
So when interacting with your children, keep these things in mind: 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐝, 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐤, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞!
What are some positive and uplifting affirmations or actions you can practice with your children?👇
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