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Today’s Tip

Being a supportive parent means having your child’s best interests at heart but also being present, involved, and helpful. It includes:
• actively encouraging them to do their best with school, their hobbies, and interests
• listening without judgment and seeking to understand their concerns and challenges
• acknowledging their achievements and supporting them through mistakes and challenges
• setting consistent expectations and consequences to help them to feel secure and able to predict outcomes
• treating them fairly and developing a trusting relationship.
The influence that you have over your child is more dependent on a trusting relationship than it is on how much authority you dish out and how many lectures you give. It may feel like they’re trying to push you away, but they’re actually trying to push themselves away from you to choose a direction in life, and to shape an identity for themselves as a separate, independent person.
Love, support, trust, and optimism from their family make them feel safe and secure and are powerful weapons against peer pressure, life’s challenges, and disappointments.
Your aim is to keep your child safe and to give them the foundations they need to do their best. At a minimum they need:
• to know they are loved for who they are, and that you are always there to support them
• an environment where basic needs such as a safe and healthy place to live, healthy food, and school supplies are made a priority
• protection and support to keep themselves safe from mental and physical abuse
• respect for their feelings and concerns
• acknowledgement of their milestones and achievements such as birthdays or first day at school
• respect for their friends, clothing, sports and music choices, and interests.

The Yunion is Hiring

September 3, 2021

The Yunion is hiring, and we’re looking for skilled and passionate people like you to join our team. A Life Guide is a Prevention Specialist who is responsible for planning, leading, and facilitating abstinence curriculum programs with participants at schools and community-based sites. If you…

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SWAG Program Alumni, Erin M. Erin

September 2, 2021

Allow us to introduce one of our SWAG program alumni, Erin M. Erin entered Yunion’s SWAG program as a 9th grader. We’ve had the pleasure of not only mentoring Erin as a student but also as an employee. Erin was recently featured in an article…

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Limit a Child on Video Games

September 1, 2021

“In an effort to curb video game addiction among children, China’s National Press and Publication Administration are tightening the reins on just how much that online gaming companies are allowed to offer young users, the nation’s news agency Xinhua reported Monday. Under the new mandates,…

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Techniques With Your Young Person

August 28, 2021

Parents, please use these techniques with your young person. The example provided is with a 6-year-old but these techniques even work with teenagers. 1. Acknowledge their behavior 2. Ask the “why” for the behavior aka get context for the content 3. Listen to the response…

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40 Developmental Assets Part 2

August 27, 2021

40 Developmental Assets Part 2 (Continued from last week)

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“Who Your Child is Today is Not Who They Were Yesterday…”

August 26, 2021

“Who your child is today is not who they were yesterday…” – Unknown Parents remembering this quote will greatly benefit you and your child. Cherish the time you have with them now and enjoy them in every stage of their life, yes even during puberty…

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Developing a Young Man

August 24, 2021

“Young men are learning how to war in the spiritual and in the physical simultaneously. The complete man is being developed. I have never seen anything like this in my entire Christian life.” #TheYunion #youth #lovingyouth #youthassistance

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The Yunion has Reached Over 10,000 Metro Detroit Youth

August 21, 2021

The Yunion has reached over 10,000 Metro Detroit youth via innovative prevention programming, engaging workshops, assemblies, and conferences. We have collaborated with over 3-dozen schools, community organizations, and churches in empowering Detroit youth and families. #TheYunion #youth #lovingyouth #youthassistance

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Check-In with Program Coordinator, Ron Ironic Lee Jr.

August 20, 2021

Check-In with Program Coordinator Ron Ironic Lee Jr. 

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Sponsoring a Student

August 19, 2021

Would you like to make a difference in a child’s life by sponsoring a student for the Cave of Adullam Transformational Training Academy (CATTA)? Visit https://theyunion.org/catta/sponsor-catta/ to learn more! #TheYunion #youth #lovingyouth #youthassistance

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SWAG, Life Skills and Prevention Program

August 17, 2021

So it starts… Program Coordinator Mr. Ron promoting our SWAG (Students With Awareness & Goals) Life Skills and Prevention Program at one of our school partners.

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The CATTA Anticipated Results

August 17, 2021

The CATTA anticipated results: Ability to resolve conflict The confidence to walk away from a fight (if possible) Improved academic performance Greater appreciation for the Bible #TheYunion #youth #lovingyouth #youthassistance

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Our Programs!

August 14, 2021

CATTA (Cave of Adullam Transformational Academy) S.W.A.G. Keys 2 Life …and more! Visit https://theyunion.org to view our programs! #TheYunion #youth #lovingyouth #youthassistance

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“Who Your Child is Today is Not Who They Were Yesterday…”

August 13, 2021

Friday Yunion Parent Check-in “Who your child is today is not who they were yesterday…”

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Is the CATTA Only for Boys of African Descent?

August 10, 2021

Is the CATTA only for boys of African descent? No, the Cave of Adullam Transformational Training Academy (CATTA) is not exclusive to any ethnic group. It just so happens that the only ethnicity seemingly interested thus far has been males of African descent. #TheYunion #youth…

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A Great Mentor Builds a Mentee’s Confidence

August 7, 2021

A good mentor helps a mentee to make decisions that help them reach their goals. A great mentor builds a mentee’s confidence in a way that less instruction or assurance is needed from others. #TheYunion #youth #lovingyouth #youthassistance

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