Today’s Tip

Published April 6, 2021

Being a supportive parent means having your child’s best interests at heart but also being present, involved, and helpful. It includes:

• actively encouraging them to do their best with school, their hobbies, and interests

• listening without judgment and seeking to understand their concerns and challenges

• acknowledging their achievements and supporting them through mistakes and challenges

• setting consistent expectations and consequences to help them to feel secure and able to predict outcomes

• treating them fairly and developing a trusting relationship.

The influence that you have over your child is more dependent on a trusting relationship than it is on how much authority you dish out and how many lectures you give. It may feel like they’re trying to push you away, but they’re actually trying to push themselves away from you to choose a direction in life, and to shape an identity for themselves as a separate, independent person.

Love, support, trust, and optimism from their family make them feel safe and secure and are powerful weapons against peer pressure, life’s challenges, and disappointments.

Your aim is to keep your child safe and to give them the foundations they need to do their best. At a minimum they need:

• to know they are loved for who they are, and that you are always there to support them

• an environment where basic needs such as a safe and healthy place to live, healthy food, and school supplies are made a priority

• protection and support to keep themselves safe from mental and physical abuse

• respect for their feelings and concerns

• acknowledgement of their milestones and achievements such as birthdays or first day at school

• respect for their friends, clothing, sports and music choices, and interests.

Support Our Virtual Training

May 5, 2020

Today is #GivingTuesdayNow, a global emergency response to the outpouring of need caused by the COVID-19 pandemic. We are hoping 200 of you would give any amount to our academy.

Virtual training is about to begin!

May 1, 2020

Our boys are logging on and the virtual training is about to begin!

Creating More Virtual Focus Training

April 26, 2020

‪It is written that the men of Issachar not only understood the signs of the times but knew what to do (1 Chron 12:32)!

TBMC With Jason Wilson

April 23, 2020

If you have an Instagram account, join me in one hour @TheBlackmanCan for a powerful IGTV Live discussion on mentoring boys and the importance of promoting positive images and lifestyles of black men and boys.

Morning Training

April 21, 2020

I am encouraged that I pushed through training this morning and created new virtual drills for our recruits to continue training during the #COVID19 pandemic,

POWERFUL REFLECTIONS FROM MARK TILMAN

April 17, 2020

Thank you Mark Tilman for sharing your powerful reflections from #CryLikeAMan,

Creating Module For Virtual Training

April 16, 2020

Our founder Jason Wilson has been creating another module for our virtual training—drawing, editing, design, automation. His desire is to give boys and young men as close of an experience as they would get with me in person.

Virtual Training

April 15, 2020

Yesterday evening, our founder/CEO Jason Wilson taught The Cave of Adullam recruits how to mediate and release trauma associated with #COVID19.

COVID-19 RESPONSE FUND PARTNER

April 14, 2020

We are honored to partner with the United Way of Southeastern Michigan in working tirelessly to help youth and families access critical resources during the COVID-19 crisis!

Quarantined With His Thoughts

April 11, 2020

Too many good men have faked it in the world so long, that they can’t even be transparent with themselves.

Virtual Programs

April 10, 2020

We are happy to announce that the Yunion has launched our S.W.A.G., Pitch U, Standing in the Gap, STEM Drone, and Citi Camp mentoring programs virtually.

Find Someone Willing To Grow With You

April 3, 2020

I experienced the most depression when I tried to fit into friendships that compromised who I really was.

Powerful!

April 3, 2020

It’s quite ironic that as I was reading this, I tried to hide my tears at coffee shops, the break rooms at work, and in my car in between shifts. This one broke me. It reminded me of many details in my life that determined the course of my personality: my actions, choices, and REactions.

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