We can either complain or train

We can either complain or train

In chapter 4 of #CryLikeAMan, I share how after the divorce, my father spent only one day a week with me—often making me feel like a chore. I will never forget the evening he complained to my mother about my poor dining etiquette at a restaurant. Although his words hurt me, I refused to allow that pain to cause me to complain about the next generation of boys who need training—instead I created what they needed.

 

Confronting the Spirit of Laziness in Boys

September 3, 2014

God never uses lazy people. Unfortunately due to the curse after the fall (Gen 3:17-19), the natural inclination of boys and men is to avoid hard work. This is why so many get lost in chasing a dream, instead of their purpose. In this short…

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Disciplined While Having Fun

August 18, 2014

Usually I would have a lesson prepared for each training, but when I walked into the building, and saw that the bouncy we rented for our summer camp was still there, this day became an impromptu Father and Son competition! What’s a blessing is that…

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Wounded & Abandoned

May 19, 2014

This is the best display I’ve seen regarding the father wound. I know this feeling all too well and remember many disappointing occasions like this with my father. I also remember saying to my father the very words Will Smith said to his uncle in…

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