THE POWER OF A FATHER'S PRESENCE

THE POWER OF A FATHER’S PRESENCE

In Chapter 5 of #CryLikeAMan โ€œThe Absence of Affirmation, I share how my father rarely attended my football gamesโ€”and of all the games for him to attend, it had to be the one when I dropped the game winning touchdown.
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โ€œI heard you dropped a touchdown passโ€ was the first thing out of his mouth. Not โ€œGreat catch in the first quarterโ€ or โ€œThat block on fifty-seven was legit!โ€ Just the same predictable negativity that refused to see the good in me. Would you believe it took nearly three decades for the Most High to expose what my dad really said?
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โ€œI HEARD โ€ฆโ€
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He didnโ€™t even see the play because he wasnโ€™t there. He showed up at the end of the game. He didnโ€™t witness anything I didโ€”good or bad. The speed I used to outpace the DB. Nothing. Just a handful of corrosive words hitting me like acid. Sitting here in my office so many years later, I finally realized what he actually meant. And when I did, all I could do was put my head on my desk and cry. โ €โ €โ €โ €โ €โ €โ €โ €โ €
Fatherโ€™sโ€”just because youโ€™re not in your sonโ€™s home, doesnโ€™t mean you canโ€™t be in his life! Please learn how to โ€ช#CryLikeAManโ€ฌ so that you can release the toxic emotions and trauma preventing you from being the father he needs.

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