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Today’s Tip

Being a supportive parent means having your child’s best interests at heart but also being present, involved, and helpful. It includes:
• actively encouraging them to do their best with school, their hobbies, and interests
• listening without judgment and seeking to understand their concerns and challenges
• acknowledging their achievements and supporting them through mistakes and challenges
• setting consistent expectations and consequences to help them to feel secure and able to predict outcomes
• treating them fairly and developing a trusting relationship.
The influence that you have over your child is more dependent on a trusting relationship than it is on how much authority you dish out and how many lectures you give. It may feel like they’re trying to push you away, but they’re actually trying to push themselves away from you to choose a direction in life, and to shape an identity for themselves as a separate, independent person.
Love, support, trust, and optimism from their family make them feel safe and secure and are powerful weapons against peer pressure, life’s challenges, and disappointments.
Your aim is to keep your child safe and to give them the foundations they need to do their best. At a minimum they need:
• to know they are loved for who they are, and that you are always there to support them
• an environment where basic needs such as a safe and healthy place to live, healthy food, and school supplies are made a priority
• protection and support to keep themselves safe from mental and physical abuse
• respect for their feelings and concerns
• acknowledgement of their milestones and achievements such as birthdays or first day at school
• respect for their friends, clothing, sports and music choices, and interests.

Comerica Bank

August 23, 2017

Since 2016, The Cave of Adullam has benefitted from the generosity of Comerica Charitable Foundation. Their recent support will help us continue #SavingBoys and transforming lives. Please join us in thanking Comerica Bank for their commitment to helping communities and congratulating them on their 20th…

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PARENT RESOURCE-STOP TEEN SUICIDE

March 6, 2017

The first time I ever recall thinking about hurting myself was at the age of 12.  I don’t remember why, but I remember feeling like the world was caving in on me.  This feeling has visited me time and time again… even into my adult…

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This Week In S.W.A.G.- Welcome

February 27, 2017

Welcome To Our Parent Community What is S.W.A.G.? S.W.A.G. is a life skills and prevention program aimed at helping young people make positive life choices.  S.W.A.G. stands for Students With Awareness and Goals.  In S.W.A.G. students are equipped for success in a variety of areas…

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The T.D. Jakes Show | Jason Wilson

February 17, 2017

Shalom! Our founder Jason Wilson was humbled to be invited as a guest on the T.D. Jakes Show but also honored to discuss a passion that has been driving him for over a decade; emotional freedom for boys and men. Please click below to watch his segment. Todah…

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DPSCD- S.T.E.A.M.Y Winter Events

February 14, 2017

Detroit Public Schools Community District is offering a few Free, Fun, and Engaging events to help enrich students in Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts, and Math.  Take a look at this week’s free events! The DPL presents the 73rd Annual E. Azalia Hackley Collection Concert, “An…

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NEWCC Equitable Internet Initiative

February 9, 2017

The Yunion is dedicated to providing you with community resources in line with our goals of Loving Youth and Uniting Families.  We are excited to share information with you about FREE high-speed internet coming to the North End through the NEWCC Equitable Internet Initiative (EII)!  OUR PARTICIPANTS MUST…

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20th Century FOX | This Is Us

January 25, 2017

Shalom everyone! I’ve been wanting to share with you some good news regarding the emotional episode of NBC’s This Is Us titled “The Trip” that included a martial arts school scene that was inspired by my teachings at The Cave of Adullam Transformational Training Academy.…

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Dead Weight or Living Weight?

December 15, 2016

Let the dead bury the dead. – Yahusha Hamashiach (Jesus Christ) Although a dead and living body weighs the same, there’s a noticeable difference when lifting the two. Have you ever had to lift someone who was unconscious? It takes a lot of effort because…

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A Year of Tears & Cheers: A Reconfirmation of My Calling

December 5, 2016

This morning as I meditated, God’s Spirit took me back to the years when I ran from His calling, to when I first answered His call (1990-1997). Although He confirmed through dreams, visions, His word and my fruit that He wanted me to be His…

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Not Consumed

December 2, 2016

“The angel of the LORD appeared to Moses in a blazing fire from the midst of a bush; and he looked and behold; the bush was burning with fire, but the bush was not consumed.” – Exodus 3:2 Have you ever felt like you were in the midst of a…

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Saving Our Youth

November 23, 2016

“Go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you.” – Yahusha HáMashiach (Jesus Christ)/ The Great Commission One…

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Now Available: Breaking Through Emotional Barriers

September 29, 2016

Jason Wilson has spent 14 years helping African-American boys become men. It was a viral video of a session at his Cave of Adullam Transformational Training Academy (CATTA) in Detroit, however, that got the nation to take immediate notice of his amazing work. What is…

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Emotional Release & Rest for Men

September 28, 2016

Since our second video went viral globally, I’ve received literally hundreds of emails, messages and calls from men across the world who are hurting from not being able to say they are hurting. My BMe Community brother Odis Bellinger was accurate when he stated, “Men are…

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GoFundMe: Saving Boys

August 3, 2016

Shalom! We are truly blown away by the outpouring of love and encouragement we have received since our video “Working Through Emotional Barriers” went viral!  It’s beyond encouraging to hear your heartfelt phone calls, read your thought-provoking emails, and receive your sacrificial donations.  It’s not only spiritually sobering…

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Am I My Brother’s Keeper?

February 14, 2016

I’ve been mentoring youth since 2003 through the Yunion, a non profit organization that serves youth and families in Metro Detroit. In 2008 I created the Cave of Adullam male character strengthening system to help black boys and young men overcome unresolved anger, ADHD symptoms, the…

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Quick Start, Not Quick Finish

December 14, 2015

This morning at the gym I planned to do my typical 10 minute mile of cardio on the Elliptical machine, but as soon as I started moving, the Lord says, “Today I want you to do cardio until the timer stops.” I was hoping the…

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