How It Was During Puberty For Us
Parents, we often hear you say โ๐ ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ฏโ๐ต ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฅ๐ฐ. ๐๐ฉ๐บ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐บ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ธ๐ข๐บ?โ ๐คโฃ
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The first thing we try to remember is, how it was during puberty for us. Remember what you needed and desired from your parents during that time. โฃ
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Yes, certain behaviors need to be addressed, but do so calmly minus the negative emotions (yelling, irritation, etc.) This is where your great communication skills come in. Acknowledge what youโre seeing, but donโt assign blame or act irrationally. ๐
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You know what to do, it just becomes harder to understand our teens because youโve gotten older and forgotten what it was like to be a teenager. That specific time can be weird and traumatizing, so weโve subconsciously forgotten about it. In doing that, we are not assisting our teens like we wish to.
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๐๐ฐ๐ฏ๐จ ๐ด๐ต๐ฐ๐ณ๐บ ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต, ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฅ๐ฐ. ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ข๐ค๐ฌ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ณ. ๐๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฅ. โฃ
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Lifting
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Upbringing
Sometimes listening is the best way to answer.
Peace Of Mind
โYou will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You.โ โ Isaiah 26:3
Boys donโt need to be โscared straightโ, they need to be healed
So the next time you see a boy with a hood on inside, donโt berate himโengage him. Our boys donโt need to be โscared straightโ, they need to be healed.
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He Knows And Understand
Trust meโHe knows and understands, so donโt fret.
Never Be Discouraged
โI know all the things you do, and I have opened a door for you that no one can close. You have little strength, yet you obeyed my word and did not deny me.โ – Rev 3:8
THE POWER OF A FATHER’S PRESENCE
Fatherโsโjust because youโre not in your sonโs home, doesnโt mean you canโt be in his life! Please learn how to โช#CryLikeAManโฌ so that you can release the toxic emotions and trauma preventing you from being the father he needs.
Peace Be Still
โMy tears have been my food day and night, while people say to me all day long, “Where is your God?”
Safe Space
This is where the battle begins and is won, for itโs written, โBut there is another power within me that is at war with my mind. This power makes me a slave to the sin that is still within me.โ- Romans 7:23
One day all men will break free from emotional incarceration
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Kobe’s Legacy: Fatherhood
For it is written, โBehold, children are a gift of the LORD… Like arrows in the hands of a warrior… how joyful is the man whose quiver is full of them!โ
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