#ParentingTipTuesday!
Itโs time for a #ParentingTipTuesday! ๐ก โฃ
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๐๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ด, ๐ช๐ต ๐ฎ๐ช๐จ๐ฉ๐ต ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ด๐ต๐ข๐ณ๐ต ๐ต๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ด๐ค๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ด ๐ญ๐ช๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด๐ช๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฅ๐ถ๐ญ๐ต๐ด. ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ญ๐ช๐ฑ ๐ด๐ช๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ด๐ข๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ช๐ด ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ด๐ต๐ฐ๐ฑ ๐ต๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐ช๐ฌ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ช๐ญ๐ฅ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฏ.โฃ
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We can see the side-eyes and hear the sighs now lol. ๐ซฃ Hear us out, we know they are not adults quite yet, but adolescence is the transition from childhood to adulthood.โฃ
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In treating them like responsible adults, you give them the opportunity to make lots of decisions and live with the consequences of those decisions. As parents we want to control as much as we can, but in trying to do so, we can sometimes do more damage than good. โฃ
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The more control you relinquish now, the more independence they gain now. Thatโs the self-control that they will use to make good decisions in establishing themselves as adults. ๐โฃ
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The happiest teens are responsible teens, who operate under real-world rules that inspire self-control rather than under the parental rules and control that may encourage rebellion.โฃ
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Do you agree?! Letโs continue the conversation in the comments!๐
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