5

Today’s Tip

Being a supportive parent means having your childโ€™s best interests at heart but also being present, involved, and helpful. It includes:
โ€ข actively encouraging them to do their best with school, their hobbies, and interests
โ€ข listening without judgment and seeking to understand their concerns and challenges
โ€ข acknowledging their achievements and supporting them through mistakes and challenges
โ€ข setting consistent expectations and consequences to help them to feel secure and able to predict outcomes
โ€ข treating them fairly and developing a trusting relationship.
The influence that you have over your child is more dependent on a trusting relationship than it is on how much authority you dish out and how many lectures you give. It may feel like theyโ€™re trying to push you away, but theyโ€™re actually trying to push themselves away from you to choose a direction in life, and to shape an identity for themselves as a separate, independent person.
Love, support, trust, and optimism from their family make them feel safe and secure and are powerful weapons against peer pressure, lifeโ€™s challenges, and disappointments.
Your aim is to keep your child safe and to give them the foundations they need to do their best. At a minimum they need:
โ€ข to know they are loved for who they are, and that you are always there to support them
โ€ข an environment where basic needs such as a safe and healthy place to live, healthy food, and school supplies are made a priority
โ€ข protection and support to keep themselves safe from mental and physical abuse
โ€ข respect for their feelings and concerns
โ€ข acknowledgement of their milestones and achievements such as birthdays or first day at school
โ€ข respect for their friends, clothing, sports and music choices, and interests.

Speak Blessings And Life Into Your Children Always

September 20, 2022

โ€œ๐˜—๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด, ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ค๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ.โ€โฃ โฃ Parents, we have had many conversations about how you are your childโ€™s biggest influence. The way you talk, how you act – to them and…

Read More

Dads Never Make Sense

September 17, 2022

Parents, when it comes to disciplining your teenโ€ฆyou want to stay away from nagging and lecturing. ๐Ÿ‘€ Most parents tend to communicate through repetition, which is needed before the teenage years. BUT, what was once an effort to help them through multiple reminders, now irritates…

Read More

5 Tips To Help Your Teen Deal With Anxiety

September 16, 2022

Parents! As we are now a couple weeks into the school year, have you noticed your young one still suffering from anxiety? Whether itโ€™s social anxiety or nerves about being back in school during the pandemic, we understand the struggle! โฃโฃโฃ โฃโฃโฃ ๐—ช๐ž ๐ฐ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ…

Read More

Three “A’s”. ๐€๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ซ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐€๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐€๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ. โฃ

September 14, 2022

Parents! Self-esteem is more than just how you feel about yourself. It’s also about how capable you are to meet life’s challenges and feel worthy of your own happiness!โฃ โฃ You can build self-esteem in your child by developing three “A’s”. ๐€๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ซ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐€๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐€๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ.…

Read More

The S.W.A.G Program Is Our Flagship Program

September 13, 2022

Parents! As fall is almost upon us, that means S.W.A.G is back! ๐Ÿ™Œ โฃ โฃ ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜š.๐˜ž.๐˜ˆ.๐˜Ž (๐˜š๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ž๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด & ๐˜Ž๐˜ฐ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ด) ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ง๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฑ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐Ÿท,๐Ÿถ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿถ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜”๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ ๐˜‹๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฏ๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜บ. โฃ โฃ In…

Read More

Are You Experiencing Emotions As A Parent?

September 9, 2022

Parents! Did you knowโ€ฆ?โฃโฃ ๐Ÿค” โฃโฃ ๐Ÿ”นAs a parent, itโ€™s normal to feel a sense of grief as your child grows up. Gone are the days when they depended on you and soon, theyโ€™ll be out on their own.โฃโฃ โฃโฃ ๐Ÿ”นEven as adults, we have…

Read More

How You Respond, Speak, And Treat Them A long Lasting Impact On Who They Will Become!

September 7, 2022

Parents, what our children think of themselves is strongly influenced by how they think their parents view them! โฃ ๐Ÿ—ฃ Your voice, whether gentle and kind, empathic and warm, or strident and harsh, becomes a big part of their inner voice. โฃ โฃ ๐Ÿง  They…

Read More

FREE Trauma Informed Parenting Session

September 3, 2022

If you know, you know. ๐Ÿคฃ Parents, we know trauma comes in all shapes and sizes. But weโ€™re going to buy the cookies! ๐Ÿ‘ Thatโ€™s right! Thereโ€™s going to be cookies inside our tin! Not barrettes, sewing supplies, random screws, or random batteries we took…

Read More

5 Tips To Help Your Teens Cope With Stress!

September 2, 2022

๐Ÿ“ ๐“๐ˆ๐๐’ ๐“๐Ž ๐‡๐„๐‹๐ ๐˜๐Ž๐”๐‘ ๐“๐„๐„๐๐’ ๐‚๐Ž๐๐„ ๐—ช๐ˆ๐“๐‡ ๐’๐“๐‘๐„๐’๐’!โฃ โฃ Now that school is back in session, all the academic responsibilities, sports, hobbies, and other commitments come along with it. Which can make for a very stressed out teenager. ๐Ÿ˜… So! Here are some ways…

Read More

No More “Fight or Flight” Parenting

August 31, 2022

Parentsโ€ฆitโ€™s time to communicate. ๐๐จ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž โ€œ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐จ๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญโ€ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ . ๐Ÿšซ โฃ Effective communication is when the person sending a message makes it clear and easy to understand, and the person receiving understands the message as the sender intended. In the real world, especially in…

Read More

The Golden Rule of Parenting

August 30, 2022

โœจ The Golden Rule of Parenting is: Do unto your children as you wish your parents had done unto you. โœจ โฃโฃ โฃโฃ ๐Ÿ”น Easier said than done, right? Who else remembers being a kid or even a young adult pre-children and thinking, “๐˜ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ…

Read More

Some Effective Discipline Strategies For Teens

August 27, 2022

Parents, I know a lot of us can relate to this video. ๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿคฃโฃ โฃ Not everyone agrees with spanking their children, for good reason, but we know it couldโ€™ve taken place in our homes growing up – and thereโ€™s a chance we also adopted these…

Read More

Blue Cross Blue Shield of Michigan Foundation

August 26, 2022

Sending a huge ๐˜›๐˜๐˜ˆ๐˜•๐˜’ ๐˜ ๐˜–๐˜œ to the Bcbs Michigan (Blue Cross Blue Shield of Michigan) Foundation, for their ๐ ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ ๐ฒ๐ž๐š๐ซ ๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ $๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽ,๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽ! ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽ‰โฃ โฃ Funding supports the launch of the ๐๐ฅ๐š๐œ๐ค-๐‹๐ž๐ ๐Œ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐‡๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐จ๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ฆ, which aims to engage African American students, parents,…

Read More

Dillon Alexander Cathro – Live

August 25, 2022

Wellness Wednesdays – Mental Health Awareness Training | Facilitated by Caleb’s Kids

Read More

“I Need to Talk to You”

August 24, 2022

๐๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ! ๐‡๐ž๐ซ๐žโ€™๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ๐๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐“๐ข๐ฉ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ƒ๐š๐ฒ! ๐Ÿ’ก โฃ โฃ Have their attention before you speak. If you are too busy to stop what you are doing to speak to them, and end up just yelling from the next room – it is likely that…

Read More

“Cave313”

August 23, 2022

Parents! With school starting for many of you this week, our @cave313 students @jaydubby and @iamelinunn wanted to discuss the best ways for boys and all teens alike to create a bond with their parents. A bond that will cultivate healthy communication, mutual respect, honor,…

Read More

Blog Categories

SEARCH THIS BLOG: